Bride
Die
or
Events
Wedding coordination for people who are done stressing and ready to actually enjoy their own damn party
You Didn’t Pay
All That Money
To Work On Your
Big Day
We're Brittany & Sevara - a wedding coordination duo that is absolutely obsessed about making sure your special day goes perfectly.
We started Bride or Die Events because weddings and celebrations are supposed to be fun — not a planning nightmare.
We want to see your mom crying happy tears, not running around looking for the centerpieces. That's our job now, and we love it.
Bride or Die Events
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Meet Your Ride or Dies
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Brittany B.
CO-FOUNDER
Certified Wedding Planner through CWP Society
Monolingual but fluent in ADHD defense tactics
The one with the emergency kit
Amateur florist and cake baker
Will absolutely cry at your wedding
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Sevara Z.
CO-FOUNDER
Fluent in Russian, Turkish, & Uzbek
Will coordinate your vendors in three languages before you’ve sat down for hair and makeup
Certified vendor wrangler
Known as the “quiet one”
(until something goes wrong)The reason your Babushka will actually enjoy the day
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Together
We speak 4 languages, have 2 sets of hands, and 0 tolerance for your great aunts BS
Stronger than we look
Detail-obsessed & die-hard committed to your day
Uncanny ability to read each others minds (and probably yours too)
Based in Seattle, because of course we are 🌈
OUR PHILOSOPHYWe are die-hard about Making Your day Perfect
It's literally in the name
OUR PACKAGESWedding Coordination
Perfect for weddings and larger celebrations with multiple vendors, detailed timelines, or events that need a steady hand guiding everything from start to finish
This package is built for couples and families who want the confidence of knowing someone else is in charge of the details so everyone can be fully present for the moments that matter.
This service includes:
The bulk of our work starts 8 weeks out from your wedding day
Timeline creation & distribution, from start to finish
Acting single point of contact
Hands-on oversight of décor setup and teardown
Real-time problem-solving as the day unfolds
Keeping your big day on track and flowing seamlessly
We show up early with our emergency kit in hand
This package includes both coordinators working together so every corner of your event is covered
Packages start at $1,600
A note on travel: An additional mileage fee of $0.75 per mile will be applied for travel to and from you venue. Applicable for venues within driving distance of Seattle, WA.
The Essentials
Package
Includes:
Both coordinators
Vendor management
Timeline creation and distribution
Wedding day coordination
Single point of contact
Up to 5 planning meetings
6 hours of on-site coverage
The Complete
Package
Includes:
Both coordinators
Vendor management
Timeline creation and distribution
Wedding day coordination
Single point of contact
Up to 5 planning meetings
8 hours of on-site coverage
The Ultimate
Package
Includes:
Both coordinators
Vendor management
Timeline creation and distribution
Wedding day coordination
Single point of contact
Up to 5 planning meetings
10 hours of on-site coverage
Additional Add-On Services
Vendor Contract Review
Proofreading Invitation Stationary
1 Hour Meeting With You + Your Vendor
Wedding Budget Review
Tear-Down Services
Seating Chart Creation
Welcome Bag Assembly
Rehearsal Dinner Coordination
Post-Wedding Brunch Coordination
RSVP Tracking
2D Floorplan
Wedding Website Creation
dont just take our word for it
Questions we actually get asked.
From two girls who have heard it all.
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Your venue coordinator is responsible for overseeing the set-up, food and beverage, and logistics as it relates directly to the venue.
An outside wedding coordinator (that’s us!) manage ALL logistics and design details with your entire wedding vendor team. We will not only make your wedding planning process easier and stress-free, but we will also simplify the jobs of your entire vendor team, including your venue coordinator!
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For weddings, 90 days out is ideal, but note that popular summer weekends in Seattle book fast.
For non-wedding events, 30-60 days is usually sufficient.
That said, if your date is coming up fast, reach out anyway. We'll tell you honestly if we can make it work.
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You fill out the inquiry form, we hop on a quick call to make sure we're a good fit, and then we send over a contract.
Your date is not held until the contract is signed and your initial payment is recieved.
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No - we no longer require a deposit to secure your wedding date.
Here is our payment schedule:
Initial Payment: 50% of your payment is due up front at contract signing.
Final Payment: 50% of remaining balance due no later than 30 days before wedding day.
Any invoices for travel reimbursement is expected within 7-10 business days.
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Yes. Every package includes both Bri and Sevara. One of us can be with the wedding party while the other is at the venue. One can manage vendors while the other handles a last-minute guest situation. Two brains, two sets of eyes, two people who are completely locked in on your day. Most coordinators charge more for a second person — we just include it.
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As wedding coordinators think of us as the final piece that pulls the whole day together - this means we don't source venues, book vendors, or build your design vision from scratch.
We DO, however, jump in up to 90 days out to confirm vendors, make a detailed timeline, and ensure event goes as seamlessly as possible.
We also don't do complex floral or lighting installations unless pre-approved, but we can certainly assist!
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Yes — and this is something we're really proud of. Sevara is fluent in Russian, Turkish, and Uzbek, which means we can communicate directly with family members, coordinate with vendors, and make sure nothing gets lost in translation on your day.
Seattle has a large Slavic and Central Asian community and we want everyone to feel fully taken care of.
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We're based in Seattle and available PNW-wide.
Whether its out East to Leavenworth, North to Bellingham, or South to the Oregon coast — you name it, we’ll make it.
Destination events outside Washington? Let's talk — we're not opposed to a good adventure.
Note: In addition to the package fee, we charge .75 cents per mile to cover transportation costs to your event for locations that are within driving distance from Seattle. For us, this usually covers most of Washington State, and parts of Oregon and Idaho. We request that you cover pre-approved accommodations for an overnight stay to any location that is beyond a 3 hour drive from Seattle.
Ready to Bride or Die with us?
Fill out our inquiry form & we'll get back to you within 48 hours!